What Should I Do If My Partner Doesn’t Support My Decision to Have an Abortion?

If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and considering abortion, but your partner doesn’t support your decision, it can feel overwhelming—and it’s important to know that your feelings about how to move forward are valid.

However, taking the time to reflect on what you want and why—and the emotional and physical risks of abortion—will help you make an informed choice before moving forward.

At First Concern Pregnancy Resource Center, we understand that this is a difficult situation, and we’re here to provide judgment-free support and medically accurate information so you can make the decision that is best for you.

Read on to learn the essentials you need to know about how abortion might affect you, as well as strategies for communicating effectively with your partner. (Or contact us today to schedule a free, confidential appointment to get the answers you need.)

Understanding the Risks and Your Options

Before making any decision, take the time to educate yourself about the risks associated with abortion. Many women experience:

Physical risks, such as heavy bleeding, infection, unexpectedly severe pain, and complications from the procedure.
Emotional and mental health effects, including feelings of grief, regret, or anxiety after the abortion.

We offer free, confidential consultations where you can learn more about these risks and explore all of your pregnancy options in a safe, judgment-free space.

How to Communicate with Your Partner

While this is ultimately your decision, your partner’s feelings are also an important part of the conversation. Here are some strategies to navigate this discussion:

Be transparent – Share your feelings and explain why you’re considering abortion.
Listen to their concerns – Even if you disagree, allowing your partner to express their emotions can help keep the conversation open and constructive.
Seek support together – If you’re struggling to communicate, consider meeting with a trusted counselor or reaching out to First Concern Pregnancy Resource Center for guidance. We can offer a safe, third-party space for you two to talk and find information together.

You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone

No matter what, you deserve support and accurate information as you make your decision. First Concern Pregnancy Resource Center is here to help you explore your options, understand the risks, and provide a safe, confidential space to talk.

*The Marlborough location provides pregnancy testing and ultrasounds. The Clinton location provides other resources, support, and education.

*All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.